It seems like only yesterday that when we entered the year 2022 and today the sun of 2023 has risen, many days have passed. How and when the year was settled, nothing was known, the fast turning pages of the calendar continued to make us feel the value of the passing months and years and we were ashamed in our hearts with each passing day. Many new covenants were also made and then the last month sat and calculated the interest and losses. But in general only the loss came.
It has been seen that most of the people reorganize their goals with the beginning of the new year. Success, failure is in the hands of Allah, but effort is the main goal. However, we will not make big plans for this New Year, as big plans usually get delayed in implementation. We will undertake a raft of small, but essential tasks.
As the society is formed by the individual and the more mature the personality of the individual, the stronger and more stable the social attitudes and roles will be. This year, at least one thing should be tied to a blanket, that is not to have any expectations from the front, because the more expectations we have from others, then the same number of hopes keep falling in the heart and when these baseless expectations are unfulfilled, So not only the heart breaks, we also get mentally stressed.
The second thing is to be humble that the more the personality changes, the more respect and importance you have in the hearts of people. People like to meet you, talk to you. Your desire resides in their heart and thus you can turn them in the right direction. There is a great emphasis on gentleness, that sweet language has a magical effect. The third goal is to meet all the goals that this attitude takes home in the hearts of people.
Meeting widens the whole circle of friends, but always meet people disinterestedly, do not remember others only when there is no meaning, remember them even without work. The fourth point is that do not become traders in relationships, never weigh them in the scales. Some things are done only for oneself with sincere intentions, and one who knows the secret that life is more than profit and loss, then it is as if he has succeeded in both worlds. Also, include your corrections in determining your priorities. Focus on some studies that will help you to think in a new way.
One last thing about the New Year is to live every moment of life to the fullest. Try to avoid showing off as much as possible because showing off, hypocrisy eats away virtues and virtues. Then sometimes pride destroys our good deeds, sometimes selfishness destroys them.
Sometimes pretentiousness eats away, sometimes low expectations crush. Pledge that this new year, you will live in a new way, in which you have to move forward through the mistakes of others, not on the faults of others, you have to keep an eye on the virtues and without a doubt, if you think positively, then everything will be fine. .